i keep seeing all my friends out there giving up on love and relationships at like the tender ages of 20-22. idk maybe its my capricorn sun but seeing ppl give up on something they’ve barely even tried is wild to me
nobody’s asked you out? ask them out! what fucking era is this? if you’re specifically waiting for someone to ask you out and refuse to do it yourself you’re just shooting yourself in the foot my dude
all your past relationships sucked? well that’s why youre not in them now! now there’s a whole world of people who are better than your last relationship, go snag one! or two! who cares!! finding whoever you want get married to is endgame shit, of course it’s gonna take more tries than you want to get there!
not meeting people? dating sites and school clubs! take a class! or go to a bar idk!! you’re not gonna find love if you dont put yourself out there in some manner! no one will know you exist if you hide away!
#attractive people privileges
my dude i am fat, acne’d, scarred and stretch marked, and a nervous wreck to boot. i can’t even tell you the amount of people who have told me i’m unattractive, but it way outweighs the people who do.
love is out there and its stupidly easy to find
Also you don’t have to be attractive to be loved? Or find love? There’s tons of assholes out there who could probably love you the way you wanna be loved. Go out into the world and find them. You might even have fun or learn something about yourself doing it
^^^ this times a million!! love gets so much easier to find when you like, actually get vested in people for who they are instead of what they look like.
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